Erection issues and timing

Long story short, dealing with issues regarding erections for years due to testicular cancer from 20 years ago. 46 now and take Clomid to increase testosterone and sildenafil once in a while to get erection. About the last year or so I’ve been having issues staying and hard during sex. The only time I seem to get erections is when I’m sleeping and waking up in the middle of the night.

I’ve learned through this program that fight or flight kicks in and my heart races from excitement about sex that it always takes away my erection. I’ve been doing everything from this program and I’m just trying to find the right timing for sex.

My wife has been very understanding and supportive at times as we’ve found other ways to make sex enjoyable.

I have a feeling in my gut that it’s just a temporary road block I’ve hit mentally regarding sex and I’m trying to figure out how to break through it.

Anyone else in this program found a way to control the fight or flight heart racing to maintain things ?

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