Hi all,
Been on this app for 2 weeks now and it’s been a great help, I have an amazing new partner, I know that she is the one for me long term, I am 33, she 30, I’ve very little intercourse experience, so has she, lately I have been working through ED issues, a lot of it is psychological as many in this group have shared…I have similar things going on and working through
Anyway…last night we tried to have sex, I took some Viagra from a prescription to help me short term, however when I tried to penetrate her or if she sat on me I just could not do it, it seemed pretty tight but it was like i wasn’t even close to success. I was pretty hard but she seemed to think I wasn’t hard enough which left me a little shocked and dissapointmented because I’m not sure I can get much harder…
My question to everyone here - what can I do or work on in terms of vaginal penetration? I don’t really know what I’m doing in the bedroom, and I know I am going to get a lot more chances, thinking different angles and lube/alternate condoms at this point
Did you have foreplay, have some fun before trying. Girls are not wet all the time (she also need to be in mood). So first try with long foreplay - at one of mojo exercises did talk about best ways but my advice if find out what your girlfriend like. After that (ofc if no medical problems) you will probably have no problem
Lubrication is essential! Get a good lube and use it. When you’re dealing with ED and penetration doesn’t happen quickly, you lose your erection because the anxiety rushes to your mind. I discovered that having mi penis well lubricated helped that and that, once inside, I could control things better.
Happened to me just last night. Tried to get in and didn’t happen first try. My doom loop thoughts kicked in and I panicked. Then I started breathing and stepped back.
Started rubbing her pussy while I worked on getting hard again. She came again in the process which helped me! I was able to F her for 6-10 min mostly with a semi, but it was the best we’ve done so far… (new gf!)
Felt great- esteem builder for both of us, but most of all progress toward a better sex life!