Over the past 10 years, I’ve had multiple one-night stands and a few girlfriends. In all that time, I only struggled to get hard 3 times. One of those times was with a girl I had been pursuing for a long time, and it really hurt because I wanted to take things further with her. Unfortunately, after that incident, we grew apart.
About two years later, I reconnected with her, and we agreed to meet at a hotel. Remembering what happened the first time, I decided to take Viagra. We ended up meeting about five more times, and I used Viagra each time. At that point, I wasn’t looking for a serious relationship, so we eventually went our separate ways.
Then, I met my current girlfriend, and we’ve been together for three years now. The first time we were intimate, I was afraid of having the same issue, so I took Viagra again. However, I quickly realized that relying on it every time wasn’t sustainable. I stopped taking it (well I only took it once with her) but then the problems began. I couldn’t last long, and eventually, I couldn’t get hard at all.
I opened up to my girlfriend about it, and she’s been really supportive, but our sex life has had its ups and downs (mostly downs). To be honest, I don’t think I’ve lasted more than 5 minutes during sex in the past three years—when I’ve been able to get hard at all.
Today, I decided to join this course because I feel terrible. I feel like I’m disappointing her and that we’re not enjoying our sex life as much as we could. I truly believe our relationship has the potential to last a long time, so I’m hoping this course will help.
Has anyone else experienced something similar?