The holidays have provided me the opportunity for morning and night sex a few times. A couple times over the holiday period I was a bit anxious about performing in the evening so took a pill. It might be in my head but I think she definitely enjoyed it more with the pill, she always orgasms, pill or not so I’m sure she’s very satisfied either way. Could have all been in my head like a safety blanket but I’m consistently harder for longer with the pill. I’m sure I would have been fine without, just maybe would have had to taken a few moments to breath etc to regain myself. Must add when I need to slow things down and regain form my wife is 100% on board and supportive so would never put anything performance related on her, it’s all me wanting her to think it’s incredible, unrealistically every time. So kinda have a dilemma now, just ditch the idea of the pill and work on getting rid of performance anxiety or keep with the easier route. Would be good if there was more information from the partners pov on here, I’m sure they’re happy with “vannila” sex now and then and just enjoy the intimacy, I know I do, sometimes get off on just kissing and cuddling with no sex.