I donāt think I compare. But I do have expectations of continuous erections. I think constant use of it has also created a way for me to key in to my own touch. So when my partner touches me, it wonāt activate me like I would. The sensations are visual rather than physical. Going through the mojo courses has made me aware of how much I actually donāt feel the physical sensations of sex. And I think porn has allowed for a lot of that.
To always stay hard, erection to never go down. Lasting a while before cumming.
That my partner should be intensely satisfied throughout each sexual experience. That women make a lot of noise during sex if they are enjoying it.
The visual stimulation I get from porn gets me aroused whereas normal sex isnāt able to get me aroused.
I donāt think Iāve made direct comparisons but I have definitely watched scenes and created Demarioās for my partner and I that really arenāt a reality. I do have thoughts that I should be hard all the time and if I canāt then I wonāt satisfy my boyfriend and he wonāt be happy.
I definitely believe that porn has been detrimental to my sex life. Sometimes when I am struggling getting hard with a naked woman in front of me, I can get hard by thinking about a porn scene that I found particularly arousing. This is problematic.
Yes. It has taught me that a man should be hard as soon as a potential sexual situation presents itself and that you must stay hard for a loooong time. And that if I like a woman and want to take her to bed, all of her previous lovers are as good as these porn stars and all she has had is amazing sexā¦and then thereās me.
No, I realize that porn is heightened Iām every way. I know reality is not like the perfect situations porn portrays.
Yes, fantasies and scenarios I feel are the only routes to being turned on. The lack of arousal with a partner feels quite paralysing.
I have an unusual fetish, which I can indulge in as much as I want through porn. I almost exclusively watch this fetish porn, and I think it has severely dulled my arousal to more normal, in person stimulation. Iām currently abstaining from porn indefinitely, ideally permanently, in an attempt to see if my regular sex-life will rebound
To have sex strong and hard.
Watching porn often sends a subliminal message to me that everyone else knows how to have sex and they have no challenges, which then makes me feel anxious that Iām the only person who lacks experience in a certain position or canāt get aroused instantly. It makes me feel inadequate when I think about what it does to my psyche.
Porn has taught me you either please your partner or they leave and cheat
Everything has to work correctly. I have to be confident and in charge all the time. I should get and stay hard at willl
I donāt tend to compare myself and I donāt worry about that, but I do find that I am worried I have become overly reliant on visuals and being able to masturbante with a death grip whilst being visually stimulated. Sex just doesnāt provide as great a visuals or as fast and hard physical stimulation so I find myself not enjoying sex as much
I do not compare myself or partners to porn. Porn has unrealistic expectations of everyone that are often unsatisfying
Porn has taught me I need to be able to do a bunch of crazy positions for it to be good sex.
Porn was made me think I must be hard at all times. The guys on there remain hard, so I should too. Sex is also clean in porn with no smells or clean ups, and it can be turn off if things get a little messy in real life.
Porn makes me doubt myself when it comes to size, level of erection and duration. During intercourse I have a hard time staying hard because I feel very little sensation.
Porn creates an expectation for the duration of sex and how much time i should spend hard which i find is impossible to upkeep