During Covid I started getting pulses in my head during sex. It basically would make me stop having sex and left me with sex anxiety.
I would even get bouts of this pulsing during the day which would just come on all of a sudden. It wasn’t every day but I would get it at least twice a week.
Since Covid has now passed, I don’t get this head pulsing anymore. So I think it had something to do with the whole Covid time and the uncertainty of everything. That said, I’ve never suffered from depression or anxiety so this was very odd.
Anyway, I still can’t seem to have penetrative sex. It’s really odd, it’s like it’s left a stain in my brain.
Prior to Covid I had no issues with having sex, penetrative or otherwise. I’m 51 now and I just think, is that it, am I officially done with having sex.
It makes me quite sad because my wife often says how much she misses it. And obviously this makes me feel worse about everything. I have tried some of these techniques on here like root masturbation and kagels, but it always makes me feel dirty. Like I’m sneaking around being a pervert.
The truth is, I think I have some kind of metal barrier that has got locked in my head. So I’m wondering if I need to see some kind to of sex therapist or something.
Has anybody else gone through this or had a similar experience. Plus, I’d be really keen to know what specific success you’ve had on this app.
Thanks in advance. 