Wife and I have been in the Swingers Lifestyle for over a year now. We are both having a blast and love it. However, I lose my erections more often than I’d like to admit when we are with other couples. Since it happened the first time, I think that it is just in my head now and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Joined here a couple of weeks ago to try and get help but just had it happen again this past Friday. Viagra doesn’t even help. Super frustrating and embarrassing.
My wife and i have just begun looking into swinging and this is my biggest fear. When things go wrong with my wife, its difficult but at least I know she understands. Worried about being with someone else.
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