Been with my wife for years now and last night went to have sex and for the life of me couldn’t get an erection this has happened to me before and I have spurts of like having that Aniexty with the over thinking and that horrible nervous feeling of like what if that happens again for like a week or 2 it’s just really annoying then I can go for months and be fine I mean Jesus she could just brush against me and I’d get an erection but it all triggered again from me noticing I didn’t get an erection quick the last 2 times we done it and now last night disaster happened it was like my brain was telling me it’s going to happen again and it did. Does anyone else get this problem of like a relapse is it normal it makes me feel terrible it makes her feel terrible too
Yeah, I’m blaming a virus that’s going around. Exactly same happened. Feeling tired weak no libido then this happened. Going to eat well, do exercise and stretching and see where I am in a week
Yeah man it’s so annoying I know it’s all in my brain as well the worst part yesterday as I kinda knew we’d probably do it last night I could feel it building up all day before hand
Stress. (Work, home life, sex, money…) they all play into it.
Read up on all the topics here. I bet you’ll find other guys with same stuff going on.
For me it’s: don’t panic, roll with it. Just rub it on her, go down on her, get her to finish a couple times. Just feeling and hearing her enjoying herself gets me going. I had it bad too. I am still using Rugiet sometimes… but it’s only a crutch. I think it’s mental to with me. I’m also very visual. I spend a lot of time during sex looking at the parts of her that really turn me on. Not like a stalker, just quick glances and telling her how much I care for her, how pretty she is and how much I’m enjoying myself. When she reciprocates it’s epic!
Good luck man. 
Thank you man yeah I know it’s all up there in my head it’s bloody stupid that’s what I normally do hearing her normally gets me going but last night it was kinda where I noticed nothing was happening and she did had a massive backfire got a bit awkward she’s normally fine reassures me through it if it’s happened in the past but last night was pretty late so she I understand why she got frustrated… I know the key is just to relax that’s what I’ve found enjoy the moment I guess I just didn’t listen to myself
I’m going through this exact thing with my wife at the moment. Been together for years, and I’ve had hot streaks and cold streaks, but lately it feels nearly impossible. I’m doing my best to get out of this mindset, facing feelings of anxiety, pressure, and even depression from feeling like a failure. I’m determined to get back on track using Mojo, and feeling like myself again, and I hope it all works out for you too. You’re not alone 