I generally struggle with just getting hard even if I’m aroused and when I do get hard (e.g. morning wood) it’s just much softer than before (I generally cannot get rock hard as I used to).
One thing I’m considering as a root cause is that I generally get turned on pretty easily and have kind conditioned myself to try to mentally suppress getting hard out in the real world or even when I’m about to get intimate with women, but prior to the intimacy (e.g. while having a drink still) and that conditioning just built up this disconnect between arousal and dick function. Basically I can feel super aroused (just the tingle in the body and penis) but just don’t really get hard.
Just putting it out there if anyone has thought something similar?