I’m a freshman in college now with a high sex drive but I can’t seem to get fully hard no matter what when I’m with a girl. I get a hard when dancing, making out, undressing but the moment I grab a condom I just end up losing it. I have had a similar issue in high school with this and was wondering if anyone has any advice for me. I’ve completely quit porn and was a daily watcher before, quit around new years. I also tried to stop masturbating to try and help this. It has just led to me not wanting to have sex with people and just avoiding it. Anyone have any advice for me? Thanks.
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it sounds to me like an issue with pressure, and potentially confidence. try to get comfortable with the idea that sex doesnt have to be perfect, your performance doesnt have to be that of a porn star, things dont always follow a certain perfect script.
it will take some time, but the more you get comfortable with things just being the way they are instead of prescribing how they should be, the easier things will get.
that is of course just on the assumption that you are as similar to me as i get the impression