I havent had any real issues like masturbating or when I’m alone I have zero problems but for some reason when I’m doing foreplay with girlfriend or doing hand stuff I can’t get to 100% I’m just sitting at like 80% which isn’t enough to actually do anything and I worry about it having a strain on the relationship and curious if anyone has any tips I am pretty young to be having this kind of problem.
i’m in the same boat bro. it’s likely just a confidence thing. my advice, something i also struggle with, is don’t worry about it. overthinking and worrying will lead to stress and make the problem worse.
I have a similar problem but it’s not consistent. I haven’t pinned down what the issue is but I think part of the problem is constantly thinking about a solution. Be in the moment. Be present. Focus on anything but trying to get hard for her.