Hi, I’m gay, top, 29 years old and have an amazing boyfriend. We have a long distance relationship and we see each other about once a month, lasting about 3-4 days each. Well, the thing is, I am having erections issues with him. Sometimes I feel like I can’t see him as a sexual partner but only life partner. One thing to consider is that I have a big and fat dick that is not super easy to get hard. Any thoughts or suggestions? Thanks a lot 
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I am not sure if this is the same problem, but this came to my mind.
I am naturally dominant, but I also have trouble sometimes being rough with my wife since I am not dominant in our daily lives. We are kind and caring towards each other, talking in cutesy voices sometimes etc, and this creates a stark contrast between how I want to treat her (and how she wants to be treated) in bed. The point is that couples should strictly separate what happens in daily lives, where partners should be respectful and caring, and in bed, where usually there is a top/bottom dynamic. The trick is to change the mindset of how you think about your partner during sex, recalling that this is what you both want in a consensual way.
Training your pelvic floor will greatly improve your erections, regardless of size 
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Oh that was veeery helpful. Thank you so much for sharing! Can I find any pelvic floor exercises here on the app?
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