Argument would be from when Istarted having Ed issues. Wife felt self conscious that Iwasnt attracted to her and she needed reassurance and I felt confused and disheartened because I wasn’t sure why this was happening and I needed understanding
My gf has been frustrated and irritated since the PE started. I felt she has needed space
When my ex moved in with me I kept analyzing in silence all her wrongdoings instead of trying to help her in what she needed
These situations are tough. Sorry to hear, brother.
So much to say, but I’ll leave it between my partner and I, plus my psychotherapist and sex therapist, etc.
I thank the team at Mojo for giving us these tools to reflect upon and put into practice as well as offering us the opportunity to engage in the community and seek support from each other.
I had an argument with my ex about being in contact with a friend she’d cheated on me with. I phrased it too much like an ultimatum which triggered her and made her feel defensive and controlled. I need to feel safe, respected, and prioritised, and she needed to feel respected and autonomous. I still feel like she disregarded how distressing the situation was for me, but this course has made me think about how I could have approached it differently but expressing my feelings and needs regarding the situation and asking hers in return.