- Making each other laugh every day, being affectionate with each other, spending a lot of time together and not getting bored of each others company.
- Being the one for each other, we know we have each others back no matter what. Total trust, total respect and love for each other. Being able to talk about anything and know that you’re in a safe space.
- I have been hurt in the past, but I need to remember I am not in the past now. My partner talks to me and is open and honest, I need to remember that and I need to be confident that she loves me for who I am regardless.
- I need to practice self-love, I need to look after myself and be open to talking about my feelings. We have something that could be very special and I am confident she feels the same way, so I need to remember that.
- Connecting, having fun and enjoying someone’s presence. The fact that I look forward to seeing them everyday
- Building a family and growing mentally, physically, spiritually and financially with that person. Making an impact on society and weathering storms together until the end
3.I need to let go of past experiences, change my standards wirh regards to background, sex, values and beliefs. Be overall more optimistic and open. Don’t be afraid - Grow, learn and never stop trying. Stop. Being. Scared, never give up
1)The spontaneous things we do together: the sex, the dates, the conversations. Everything
2)To go on to remain close in each other’s lives and not let our conflicting lifestyles get in the way of that. I don’t think we’re compatible in a monogamous romantic LTR
3)We need to stop arguing as much and being up in each other’s business with things.
4)Start trusting each other again and bring in open communication
The zest for enriching each other’s lives by striving and being smart by making the right decisions as life partners.
The best future will be to continue working hard with eachother and always have each other’s back and to support one another.
We need to work on how we negatively speak on things and try to avoid any kind of negative speech as it raises cortisol levels and that is just not healthy overall. Takes away from keeping a clear healthy mind state. We need to openly admit that we sometimes speak on whatever is bugging us and drag it out endlessly sometimes or first thing in the morning and identify that it is a problem
I feel like I can be myself with her, she doesn’t judge me and has always accepted me for who I am, we can always have a laugh, and we always give eachother time and space if we need it
The best future I can hope for is to achieve what I have set out for years to achieve, I know that she will never hold me back and has always supported me fully, I hope that we can always talk about difficult situations , and never shy away from difficult topics
I need to change my own habits, particularly my reliance on porn, it’s not a true reflection on what sex is really about!although I can’t always get hard my self I always make sure that my partner is satisfied, that’s very important to me
Our open communication and immense respect and admiration for one another, and constant desire for one another. We hope to continue to maintain these attributes by keeping the spark alive, and being patient and engage with each others lives. We need to continue what how are currently interacting and living. Keep loving one another and treating each other how we want to be treated ourselves
The best part of our relationship is how affectionate it is and how much we share. (Weirdly, although I think we do have issues in bed, I’ve never had any kind of intimate partner with whom I enjoy affection, cuddling etc. as much as with him.)
The dream would be to convert that closeness into a more sexual bond, where both of us can really get into a sexual dynamic more often. In terms of where I’m at at the moment, I’d also like to have a sexually open relationship where we can both play with other people - but maybe one thing at a time.
To make this happen, we need to have a more honest discussion about sex, what we both need, what causes us anxiety in bed, and what we want to try. I want to try to have this conversation, and start taking steps like using the sensory exercises on this app, as soon as possible.
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Discovery: constant companionship, feeling loved, feeling known, feeling seen and appreciated and cared for. A best friend. Someone to adventure and laugh and explore with. Someone to learn and grow with.
Dream: Enjoying grandchildren together. Serving others together. Traveling the world together.
Design: Time 
- continued commitment to each other, our relationship, and improving it and ourselves each day.
Destiny: Mental, emotional, spiritual, and financial health. We commit every day.
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Discovery: The support and care of another person, and constant companionship
Dream: A partner who grows and learns with me through thick and thin, and a strong healthy marriage with kids
Design: Become the person who treats themselves nicely, and is confident so that I have the energy to help and build up my partner as well.
Destiny: Challenge old thought patterns, work through some trauma, and prove to myself treat myself better
Discovery: what are the best parts of your relationship?
- The oneness we feel when we are together, the similarities in the way we love each other, and the way we both put each other first.
Dream: what’s the best future you can hope for?
- A future in which both of us are fully committed and in love and happy. Where we can be a family with each other. Where there is nothing holding us back from one another. We don’t have to hide anything, we’re able to love and show our love for each other completely.
Design: what needs to change to get you there? Practically, what steps do you need to take? What positives can you expand?
- First we need to wait for the right time for her… she’s not ready to share our relationship yet. Secondly, I need to be more open with her about everything I’m feeling. I do a good job most of the time, but sometimes I keep a feeling to myself so she doesn’t feel bad that I’m struggling. She likes to take responsibility for everything I feel, even when it’s not her fault. So if delivered well, putting out those bids for connection I think would help. Thirdly, I think, continuing to authentically support each other as we’ve been doing will be something we can build on. Long distance is difficult in some ways, but wonderful in others. Her and I giving each other quality time and energy makes all the difference in the world.
Destiny: how might you commit to that? What kind of support do you need to accomplish your preferred future?
- Two things: 1. I need to be more proactive in sharing my struggles. I want to be strong and perfect for her like she thinks I am… she inspires me to push to that height… but I’m not strong all the time. Some days, I really struggle being so far away, especially when she’s busy and we can’t get any quality time. 2. She’s so busy, but I think if we both were able to set up some prioritized quality time, that would help. Not just time while the other is on the go, but where we each just sit down and enjoy some prioritized quality time together. Even through a screen. I need to communicate that better.
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Best parts are time present with each other and embracing each others goofiness and love. Just simple time hanging out together and laughing over silly stuff
I’d like where I can be more present with wife and spend less time playing video games
I can commit to have at least one date night every two weeks where we focus on each other.
discovery: i really like feeling completely comfortable with someone feeling desired and sharing small moments and plans for the future
dream: my dream would be to find this with someone i really like and want to spend more time with and want to be around over other things
design: i think i’ve met someone who can be that person and hopefully everything goes well and we can achieve that but steps will require more dates and being attentive!
destiny: im not wholly in charge of the situation! but i guess just being myself and being honest is the best way forward
I want a fully supportive relationship. You each appreciate and share each others interests, and when times are hard you get through it as quick as possible.
I’d want a close knit family with a girl who would be a great mother but still love and spend alone time with me frequently.
Currently need to be able to sort through issues I have with my current girlfriend, but keep the rest of the relationship, the parts that are supportive and fun.
I need her to be open to talking about things that are hard to ease everyone’s mind. I need her to do that with me but transition back to fun and loving when the convo is over.
Having someone to share experiences with. And bounce ideas and critiques off of, and to build with toward a bright future.
A long relationship with someone I view as a teammate with similar goals of just self improvement and maximizing life.