We’re doing lots. Communicating, open, supportive, fun, exploratory, etc. Both aware and willing to work
Discovery: companionship, safety, laughter, shared experiences and interests
Dream: looking forward to time together, a more organic and fun shared sex life, a renewed sense of spark
Design: allocated time together spanning date nights and other, more novel activities and experiences
Destiny: ensuring honest communication, allocating time, balancing deep communication with a sense of fun
Discovery: Communication, shared experiences, companionship
Dream: Living together with my partner, through the ups and downs of everyday life. Enjoying ourselves, enjoying each other, spontaneous sex with love permeating throughout our home
Design: Resolving/managing my sexual wellness issues to enjoy the spontaneous sex, taking more time out to build a connection through date nights, and just general nights spent together
Destiny: By committing to at least one date night a week. Spending quality time together. Not shying away from tough conversations.
Discover: having a beat friend that you can explore life with intimately and expressively.
Dream: living the most fulfilling lives possible and sharing theses moments together, pushing and supporting one another along the way
Design: working on being the greatest version of myself so that I can be there in every way possible.
Destiny: keep my life organised and having my goals centre stage. Making small daily efforts to build towards it.
1 Like
Discovery: the thing that I have deep and bright feelings.
Dream: pong, loving, respectfull and safe relationship.
Design: I need to restructure my worries and thoughts.
Destiny: I might need a help of a therapist to receive feedback.
My wife and I are about to meet together with a couples’ counselor who’s been working with us each individually over the past six weeks or so. This Mojo session has been excellent preparation for that joint meeting. Feeling hopeful, I’m anticipating the next stages.
Discovery - Shared interests and hobbies, shared kinks, wanting to explore and try new things together, feeling like the connections are organic and that they evolve on their own.
Dream - More sex. Both for surface level pleasure and for deeper more trusting connections. I’d love to get to a place where our sex and kink can just flow and grow effortlessly.
Design - More communication, definitely. Trying to lean into more bids for affection and trying to have sex sooner in the evening/during our time together.
Destiny - Being brave and bringing up needs and desires is a big one. I think this is getting easier but still fraught with a it of tension. I think I just need to keep being my most authentic self and asking for what I want.
1 Like
Discovery- getting to know the girl and finding similar interests with her. Finding and loving each others quirks
Dream- one day I’d want to find a girl that works for me and my lifestyle where I also work for hers
Design- don’t close off to experiences that could be good be open to finding love even if she’s not what I invisioned
Destiny- apply what I learn grow as a person and achieve my personal goals for this life
Discovery- Not sure the few friends i do have we’re pretty tight i guess that’s a plus
Dream- The best scenario i can hope for is being in a loving relationship with kids and a decent house.
Design- I think i’m taking all the right steps right now but i just need to figure out how to stop smoking weed (doing better) and staying on task more often
Destiny- i just think i need a more consistent job and lifestyle where i can get into a set routine honestly then i think everything will fall into place.