I didn’t have sex for more than 2 years as my marriage ended. I’ve had erection issues in the past and I met a new woman recently. The first time I got hard enough to get inside her, but didn’t stay hard. She told me afterwards she had a great time and appreciated the attention to her body. Last night I was having dreams about her and we were sexting this morning. Really arousing. All day I was turned on, but I could feel myself start to tense up before she got here, and sure enough I could barely get hard. Enjoyed the kissing and exploring her body, but I am feeling down about the experience. I’m worried that she’s disappointed but more than that I’m worried that I’m never successfully have sex again.
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Very similar situation to me, make sure you talk openly with your new women as that helps ease some of the stress. Try all the different techniques on here, kegals, reverse kegals, managing negative thoughts and penis root masturbation - I’m finding progress - not perfect but getting there. Keep positive and try and focus on the enjoyment of being with a women who is in to you.
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I had a similar slow start with my current partner. It’s only been about 3 months and is much better now after one complete failure and one 50%. Open communication is key and sounds like she’s supportive. Also it’s totally normal to be like this with first partner after 2 years. I’m really glad I kept with it with this current partner, I think you’ll be fine if you do the same. Best wishes to you man!
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